YOU CAN'T TAKE IT BACK...

Tony Walker

Here's a situation we've all been in before.

"I hate you!"

"Your best is not good enough!"

"I never wanna see you again!"

These & many more are the things we say but usually don't mean. Most of the time we say these words to the people we care about the most & regret it immediately after we say it.

Recently, someone very important to me was arguing with me. Sure enough the "I hate you" came out.

It stopped me dead in my tracks. A part of me knows this person didn't mean it but another part of me wonders what led this person to say it.

Does this person harbor some heavy negative feelings about me? How can my friend be so mean?

I'll admit that it messed with my head. 

What bothered me even more was the half ass apology I got. Maybe it's me but if I say something like that I'm doing some heavy ass kicking for awhile.

Tell us what you think. How do you feel when someone says something like that to you? What do you do when you're the one who said it?

FALLING IN LOVE ON FACEBOOK....

 

 

Tony Walker

 

All the time you hear about people "hooking up" through the internet, especially now with Facebook-I'm sure everyone has heard at least once about some guy & girl who dated 100 years ago & got together recently to remember those times. 

Here's one that's new to me. A guy I know met a girl on Facebook through a friend of a friend of a friend. These two have never met physically, they've made comments on mutual friends' posts & got friendly through that. The two of them became Facebook friends & got to know each other. Nothing wrong with that. I know several people that way. It's nice making new friends right? Who cares how or where you met? Here's the strange part. This guy thinks he may have fallen in love with this girl. Again, they have never met physically. In fact, they're in 2 completely different parts of the Country! But they've had long conversations, actually emails & IM's... this guy doesn't even know what this woman sounds like! Yet based on their emails & IM's, he thinks he may have fallen in love with her. He also thinks that she is absolutely beautiful... which he's right about. I saw her picture. She is stunning. But is it possible to fall in love this way? He is very very confused about this. Either way, he's not going to act on it because she is married. However, based on their conversations he thinks she feels the same way.

Tell us what you think. Do you believe in this age of technology that it's possible to fall in love with someone even though you've never physically met?