JILLIAN B HART... ARE YOU HUNGRY?

“The greatest boundaries that we face in our lives are very often the ones 

we ourselves create in our minds."  —  Ellyn Spragins

Can right and wrong get mixed up?  Is there a time and place to blur the lines? Cross the line? Is life always as simple as black and white --- when you see endless shades of gray?


Is there a dream or a fantasy that you hide in your heart, that if opportunity presented itself you would act on it? Doesn't everyone have one or more of those tucked away somewhere?  (Are you fooling yourself if you are shaking your head no as you read this post.)  That secret - never shared, like some taboo topic that is avoided at all costs.  An honesty perhaps not even obvious or admitted to yourself. 


Honesty, integrity and self esteem weigh heavily on the success of many relationships.  But, relationships change.  People change. Passion fades.  Distance grows.  Sex can be an action without an emotional reaction. Lovers can become more like housemates.  Life is not static.  Yet so often the most important relationship in your life is.  It stops growing.  You stop dreaming. Would acting on a fantasy help or harbor the union? Does a happier "you", make for a better "we"? Do the rules change if there is an act of promiscuous nature involved? If it stays in your head and heart is it okay, is there no harm done? A one night stand can be written off and forgiven whereas something with a history or connection means game over. Is an emotional attachment a means to justify or make matters worse? What if no one ever knew? Acting on a fantasy could feed and fuel your libido, whereas the opposite may forever starve your soul.  Can carnal desires or something unfinished ever completely be snuffed out? Is sex ever really just sex? 

SUNDAY NIGHT RE-RUN....HE SAID...

HE SAID...
Tony Walker

This is the post that is going to get me in trouble.
In an attempt to save myself I am going to start off by saying that I ALWAYS tell my wife how smoking hot, gorgeous, sexy, beautiful, etc. she is. Honest to God she would agree with this. I tell her all the time.


If your man tells you how great you look, then what is the big deal if we look at another woman as they pass by?


This is something I have never understood. It's not like the guy has suddenly forgotten about you. It's the same as admiring a painting, a landscape, etc.  My wife would also tell you that she honestly doesn't care that I stare & flirt with others. She knows who is NUMBER ONE.


So what is the big deal?

FRIENDS WITH.....

Tony Walker

Friends With Benefits. I have another word for it but Barbara was going to beat me up so I am going with FWB.
Surely most of you (if not all of you) have had a special friend who is there for you if you know what I mean.
I had two FWB's.... not at the same time although that would've been nice.... I mean I had one at one time and another during another time in my life.
I loved having a friend like that. We would meet, talk for a few minutes, laugh, then have some mind blowing sex with NSA. I would get into more detail but I promised Barbara I'd behave with this post.... damn!
One guy I know got his wife's permission to find a "buddy" because her sex drive is nowhere near his. He hasn't found a steady FWB but he's trying. His wife knowing about it is pretty crazy right?
A girl I knew used to meet a guy just to make out with him once in a while. Does that count as a FWB?
Have you ever heard the stories about after someone dies everyone finds out that that person had a girlfriend for most of his life that no one knew about? Some of them actually have a double life where they have a whole other family! Does that count? I know someone who actually led a double life for a while. Married at home but also spent time with a girl. They were so close he knew her whole family!
Why do we need friends like this? Do you do things with that person that you wouldn't do with anyone else? Do you actually have feelings for that person? Is there a level of excitement about having NSA sex? Is it to fill a void in a single person's life?
Tell us what you think. Have you ever had a FWB? Tell us some juicy stories about your adventures with your buddy! Tell us if emotions or feelings got in the way. Tell us if you've ever been caught. Tell us anything you want!

LUNCH TIME POLL - Party of Three

Jillian B Hart


A 'threesome" is something many fantasize about.  Perhaps many more then are even willing to admit  to thinking about it.  A threesome is NOT like regular sex.  It will require trust, imagination and sensitivity. 


Is it something you really want? How do you get your lover to agree?  
If agreeing to cross this line... 
Are there rules?
Limits? 
How would comfort, trust, and respect factor in?  
What about jealousy?  
Would you give as much as you want to get?
Can a threesome really be just pleasure and experimentation or will it permanently alter your relationship forever?
Is this different for a man and a woman?


If you were to invite someone else into your bedroom with you and your lover, how would the ménage à trois add up?

FFF- All ladies...
FFM - Two girls & a guy
MMF - Two guys & a girl
MMM - Men's club, no girls allowed

LUNCH TIME POLL

Jillian B. Hart


The flux of hormones that conjured wild images of hungry kisses exploring every inch of her flesh.  His mouth salivated, ravenous for a deeper taste, as she opened her mouth with a low sexy moan. The heat with in them heightened to inferno....

I've been told that my "Hart's Desire" stories are HOT, HOT, HOT.... even been asked if the stories are fantasy or reality based.  My feeling is you make your own reality.  You should create what you DESIRE.... Create the sex life that you desire...


According to your own personal definition of what constitutes a "good sex life"...
How would you rate your sex life?

Nonexistent
Mortifying
Bad
Fair
Needs Improvement
Good
Excellent
Fabulous
White HOT
World Rocking

Would your partner agree or disagree with your evaluation? 


If it needs spice, are you willing to go there?


What are the aspects or criteria that affect your definition of a "good sex life"....
Frequency
Attraction
Quality
Endurance
Spontaneity
Spice & Thrills
Ratio of climaxes to escapades
Multimedia (Think Tony's Post)
Affection
Foreplay
Fidelity
Number of Jealous Friends
Fantasy Aspect

Thoughts???? Comments...... Talk to me people!!!

THIS MAN'S VIEW OF WICKED...

Tony Walker
So here's one that will spark a lot of people.
Swinging & Swapping!!!

In one of my earlier posts I mentioned something about doing road construction right outside a swingers club. Let me tell you... for a perv like me who was in his prime seeing the sexiest women walking into this place was unreal.

Let me say something right now... when I say the sexiest women I mean classy sexy, not some gal in a mini skirt.

Working in front of this place & seeing all these women sparked my interest. I was 24 or 25 at the time. Truth be told, I didn't even know these places existed until this night. During a break I walked over. I had to see what was going on. The bouncer would not let me in. I told the guy the truth that I never saw one of these places, it's freezing outside (which it was) & I just wanna take a peek. I won't bother anybody. So the bouncer still wouldn't let me in to the club but he let me into the lobby & opened the door to the club. For about 15 seconds I stood at the doorway watching an amazing site. Girls dancing with girls....and god knows what else.
This my friends to me, was heaven.

Those 15 seconds were burned in my brain. I was like the dog in those commercials.... "Kibbles & Bits, Kibbles & Bits....." only I was saying, "Swingers club, swingers club."

My former wife wanted no part of it, even though her best friend at the time turned out to be a swinger. We didn't know it until I told them about this club. It was then that this girl admitted to not only being a bi sexual, but a swinger and was dying to have some fun with my wife.  NO OTHER WORD COMES TO MING BUT.... BOING!!!!