HANDCUFFS ANYONE?

Jillian B. Hart

Walking the NC-17 line at DRL this afternoon.  And, they say my post are steamy!  Walker & "party girl" Boyle must have caused a little condensation on computer monitors around the world today with their viewpoints on "He Said, She Said".


Without tipping my toe in the hot tub of innuendo and inclination that bubble up and over in the comments. (Although I must admit, considering the topic, it stayed rather mild - making allowance where it could have gone to pushing the limits of FCC regulations.)  I'm going to give my two cents in an indirect way.


Once again it all comes down to SEX!  Imagine that!  Wanting to add spice, thrills, and excitement is NORMAL.  Very normal.  So why does it seem so shocking and naughty to suggest things outside the typical bedroom "box"?  Isn't it the naughtiness that makes it more desired?  It's all about forbidden fruit.  That dates way back.  This obviously is not a new issue to mankind.  When society has come leaps and bounds in many moral and social aspects why does it stall and stagnate on issues of sexuality? 


Isn't everything you need to pump up your sex life right within you.  You have everything you need (as long as your partner agrees)!  Live boldly.  You and your mate are the ones that draw your boundaries or break them.  You control the moment and where it can take you. Communication and honesty are key.  Talk about what you want and how you want it - if you dare, with whom you want it.  Commit to trust and then go for it. Rather then cautiously test the waters, dive straight in to the sex life you want with free abandon.  If you both agree the potential is limitless.


Start simply.  Change perfumes.  Light some candles.  Get a babysitter.  Dare I say, initiate SEX! Fancy some lacy lingerie or sexy boxers.  Talk "dirty". Start some foreplay in a room that DOESN'T have a bed in it. Toss on a white T-shirt and surprise your lover in the shower  for a little "Wet Tee" fantasy.


Once you have started walking that line - push! "Push it real good!" Hell, Copp is out kissing frogs!  Decide what your forbidden fruit is, and TAKE A BITE.  For some it may mean playing dress up (ladies, don't forget sexy heels - in many instances it will be all that stays on in the end!), for others - please pass the handcuffs & scarfs.  Although, not for everyone it, for some may mean inviting others into your intimacy and creating the "sex-capade" of you wildest dreams.  However if you break out of that box and take the splash it's certain to be anything but ANTI-CLIMATIC!