Dawn Boyle
There is something I would like to address. Some of you may have noticed that DRL has some "fans" that do not say the nicest things to me or about me. In fact a few people have approached me asking how I am taking the nasty comments. I must admit a few weeks ago I was blindsided by this. I didn't understand why someone would put such horrible things out there. It took me a few blows from our "annoymous" and "fake named" readers for me to come to terms with it. I am sharing what I have figured out not only with you all but with my daughters as well. Never too early to shed some light on the envitablilty of some people in this world and create a thicker skin.
You can't deal with people who hate you because if somebody hates you that's something they're dealing with. Not you. It's rather irrelevant that you're the target of their hate.
You're fighting an uphill battle that you'll never win. It's like thinking you have enough strength to lift something impossible.
You have to allow the hatred- and not absorb it on yourself.
You can tell yourself whatever you like to help you deal with it better. The easiest solution is to just let it go and let them be the bad guy. If somebody is hating you- the hatred always destroys the hater and never the hated. As long as you empower yourself to be strong enough not to let it destroy you.
You're fighting an uphill battle that you'll never win. It's like thinking you have enough strength to lift something impossible.
You have to allow the hatred- and not absorb it on yourself.
You can tell yourself whatever you like to help you deal with it better. The easiest solution is to just let it go and let them be the bad guy. If somebody is hating you- the hatred always destroys the hater and never the hated. As long as you empower yourself to be strong enough not to let it destroy you.
In other words..."STICKS AND STONES MAY BREAK MY BONES, BUT WORDS WILL NEVER HARM ME". I am empowered not to let them!
Thanks for the concern and keep reading!!!
