SO THERE WE WERE...

DRL is pleased to introduce...

Bridgette

So there we were, sitting 3 inches away from each other on a loveseat, glaring at a pair of eyes sitting in front of us both.  “Why were we here?  Why did I agree do try?”  Let me tell you it saved our marriage.  After only a few sessions with our Sex Therapist, did we start to even look into each other’s eyes and realize that we were on the right track.  We knew we were heading down 10 miles of bad road, till we actually were honest with each other.  After 10 years of marriage and three kids, all under the age of 9, we finally said, “Let’s give it a swing”.  I, who will call myself, Bridgette, didn’t enjoy sex, didn’t want to even bother.  It grew into a chore for me.  He, we’ll call him Eric, had a strong libido and needed to be satisfied and needed to feel connected.  Needless to say, with the lack of libido in me it drove us apart.  It wasn’t that I didn’t love him, because I did very much.  In my mind, everything was just, OK.  I could do without and satisfy myself if I needed to.  It was our Therapist who made me answer some really difficult questions.  Questions like, “What do you love about your husband?, What do you not like? What turns you on?  Do you let him watch you masturbate?  Sometimes I was at a loss for words.  Other times I was like an open book, and it got much easier as the sessions passed us by.  You’re probably asking……when did things change?  She gave us some suggestions to spice up what we were trying to fix.  They all seemed to be very vanilla, which was fine, so we gave it a try.  In other words, Homework!  “Tonight, you just look into your spouse’s eyes and tell each other what you love about them”.  “Just make-out, but no penetration”.  “Hold hands when you are walking together”.  Be each other’s boyfriend and girlfriend”

THIS MAN'S VIEW OF WICKED...

Tony Walker
So here's one that will spark a lot of people.
Swinging & Swapping!!!

In one of my earlier posts I mentioned something about doing road construction right outside a swingers club. Let me tell you... for a perv like me who was in his prime seeing the sexiest women walking into this place was unreal.

Let me say something right now... when I say the sexiest women I mean classy sexy, not some gal in a mini skirt.

Working in front of this place & seeing all these women sparked my interest. I was 24 or 25 at the time. Truth be told, I didn't even know these places existed until this night. During a break I walked over. I had to see what was going on. The bouncer would not let me in. I told the guy the truth that I never saw one of these places, it's freezing outside (which it was) & I just wanna take a peek. I won't bother anybody. So the bouncer still wouldn't let me in to the club but he let me into the lobby & opened the door to the club. For about 15 seconds I stood at the doorway watching an amazing site. Girls dancing with girls....and god knows what else.
This my friends to me, was heaven.

Those 15 seconds were burned in my brain. I was like the dog in those commercials.... "Kibbles & Bits, Kibbles & Bits....." only I was saying, "Swingers club, swingers club."

My former wife wanted no part of it, even though her best friend at the time turned out to be a swinger. We didn't know it until I told them about this club. It was then that this girl admitted to not only being a bi sexual, but a swinger and was dying to have some fun with my wife.  NO OTHER WORD COMES TO MING BUT.... BOING!!!!

HE SAID....

Tony Walker

Here's one that's probably going to get me crucified!

Ladies.... why do you get so hung up over us guys trying to get you to kiss other women?

It's fun, it's sexy, it's hot, it's sexy, it's beautiful, & it's hot!! What's wrong??

There's been posts on here by me & some others... but mainly me.... about how we all need to loosen up & just enjoy the lovemaking with our partners. Doesn't this fall under that category?

Yes I am one of those men who think 2 gorgeous women kissing is the biggest turn on. To me there is nothing sexier than 2 naked women kissing. Am I a pig? Probably. But this is me & most other men.
Don't get me wrong... I am not replacing this for romance or true lovemaking. I am also not saying this is better than a romantic night with your soulmate. What I am saying is that there is nothing wrong with this as a way to spice things up.

I know some women who love a little girl on girl sometimes. I doubt I'll get someone on here to back me up. But I know you girls are out there!