Phone sex... Fun for some, taboo for others...
I know 2 couples who split up as a result of phone sex. One the husband was addicted to it & spent way too much money on it, the other where the wife was doing it with a guy she knew & the relationship went beyond the phone. Crazy!!
I have a friend who used to be a phone sex operator. She claims she once got a call from a guy who turned out to be someone she graduated high school with! Now THAT'S crazy!
I've done it. It doesn't replace the real thing but it was fun.
I wonder if Skype will be the new way to go!
Tell us what you think. Have you ever had phone sex?
Do you think it's a form of cheating?
Do you think it's a strange thing to do?
If that's what you and your spouse are into, then go for it. If not, then stay far far away. Absolutely it's a form of cheating.
ReplyDeletewhatever tickles your fancy....and yes it is totally cheating!
ReplyDeleteYes. I've done it. Why is it cheating? I'm not saying it is or it isn't.. But, Is it about the sex or the trust? What if it makes things better?!?!? What if it makes you HOT for the one you are "with"?
ReplyDeleteBlessing or a curse.... no one should judge - except the one you're with.......
I think you're all saying the same thing.
ReplyDeleteIf a couple are cool with it, that's their business. No judging allowed!
Of course it's cheating if your spouse doesn't know about it. If it makes you hot for the one you're with, then you should be able to tell that person, no?
NO!
ReplyDeleteNOPE!
No Telling!
Some secrets are better left unsaid...
ReplyDeleteWhat good can come of it?
Secrets aren't always bad...
Some add spice.
Some save a marriage.
Some save a life!
I've done it.
ReplyDeleteMy wife knows. Once or twice she was with me.
It's fun, but it can get expensive but even more important-NOTHING CAN REPLACE THE REAL THING!!!
Jillian, can you call me tonight around 11? LOL
oh boy.....things are getting heated! I think if you are having phone sex with someone that is not your spouse, you BETTER keep it a secret!
ReplyDeleteI disagree........
ReplyDeleteIs "THE REAL THING" what it's supposed to be if you are having phone sex????
Are we talking a sex issue or a marriage/relationship issue?
Casual? With a Stranger? If it's "just sex" does it matter?
With someone you know, old flame, facebook connection... Then does it matter?
Then it's emotional ---AND by far worse!
That means they are in your their head - and probably been and still are in your heart.
If it's going on when you are supposed to be committed to someone -
Then isn't it SYMPTOM and not a CAUSE.....
I read that someone was spending way too much money...that would be zero connection if you are calling one of those sex lines....do they even exist anymore?
ReplyDeleteI totally agree!
ReplyDeleteSYMPTOM and not a CAUSE.
Sex... Love... Relationship...
ReplyDeleteIf you are in "love" (Sex... Love... Relationship...) with two people you should choose to be with the second. Because if you were in "love" with the first one the "right way" you wouldn't have discovered the love for the second.
Come on Dawn, money so isn't the point here!
ReplyDeleteAnd..... I agree Barbara!
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